What I Wish MY Church Knew About ME

26 May

In case you didn’t think memory loss was real, I’ve had this paper sitting on my desk for about a month now with blog ideas scribbled on it so that I wouldn’t forget them. I purposefully left it there to remind me to write a post. And what do you know today I sit down to write and behold, my paper (okay, to be honest, it was a prayer sheet from church…but hey…I have to write on whatever I find at the time…) was gone! I looked all over for it and then remembered that I cleaned off that area earlier this week and could I possibly have thrown it away?? Noooooo…surely not. So I went to my bedroom trash can and looked through it but no old prayer sheet. 😦 And I can’t search my main trash can because I did some crafting this morning and there is glitter and modge podge in there and EVERYONE knows you can’t open that back up.

All that to say this is pretty much the only post I remember from the list and I’m still waiting for the others to come back to my brain so this is what ya get today!

It has come to my attention that Sunday is usually the hardest day of the week for me and almost no one at my church knows it. It’s my fault. I’m really good at putting on a fake face, so good that I fool myself sometimes. I’m still learning to be more open with people. I know I need to work on it.

Sundays are hard because they require a lot of energy. Mental, spiritual, and emotional energy. There’s also pressure to be “put together and cheerful” although there shouldn’t be.

Sunday School starts at 9am. I walk to church (duh) which I love to do. Don’t get me wrong- I am surrounded (literally) by people who go to my church and would gladly give me a ride but I like the 11 minute walk there. If it’s raining, that’s another story lol. SS is great because it’s more interactive than church. But it requires more thinking and concentration- first energy drainer.

There is a half hour in between SS and worship to fellowship. My heart really likes that time because I get to talk with people and find out how they are doing. But sometimes it can be really hard, if I’m feeling lonely or tired, it’s hard to put myself out there and engage others- second energy drainer.

Worship is my favorite time because as stated before, I LOVE music! I wouldn’t trade the singing time for anything. But I also said before that the noise hurts my head most days. A lot of Sundays I think to myself, “Which would you prefer, Lord? Do you want me to stand up and be silent or would you like me to sit and actually sing? Because I’m not sure I have the energy to both stand AND sing right now.” -third energy drainer.

By this time, I’ve actually made it to the sermon. I will listen as much as I can but I won’t be able to tell you what it was about later. For instance, I can tell you my Pastor right now is preaching out of Titus on elder qualifications because we are in the middle of a pastor search but probably anyone who follows our Facebook page could say the same thing. Pretty sad, huh? Once in a while, something particular will catch my attention and will stick but not often. And taking notes actually makes it worse as weird as that sounds. I usually remember more from SS because of the interactive nature of that setting than from the sermon- fourth energy drainer.

And then I will walk home (or sometimes get a ride) to fall asleep on my couch for a while. Later that night, I’ll either go to small group or Sunday night church- fifth energy drainer.

You might be asking: why do you go if it’s so hard? I’ve asked myself that too sometimes and occasionally I need to leave early to give my brain a break. But it’s worth it. It’s worth it to fellowship with my brothers and sisters, to worship our Lord together, and to learn more about Him. My struggle is infinitely less than what he went through for me and he still counted the cost and thought it was worth it. What a good God!

But if you see me dazed or sleepy on a Sunday or doing something unusual (like the fact that I usually take off my shoes during the service lol…) come ask me about it and I’ll gladly explain.


Posted by on May 26, 2018 in church


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8 responses to “What I Wish MY Church Knew About ME

  1. My Word Soup

    July 22, 2018 at 7:26 AM

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It makes me want to be more sensitive to sisters at church who are struggling…or realize that people are struggling and I don’t know it. Church fellowship is draining. I need at least a one hour nap in the afternoon and could never go back for round 2 in the evening. Need to rest & get ready for the week ahead. Keep sharing…writing helps. I do it partly so I won’t forget my experiences 😁👍

    • Kimmy

      July 22, 2018 at 9:55 AM

      I never realized before how many people struggle at church until I started opening up some. Thanks for your encouragement!

  2. Rejoicing In Hope

    May 28, 2018 at 6:51 PM

    There is something special about fellowship with other believers! It can take a lot of energy, but the relationships are worth the effort! 💗

    • Kimmy

      May 28, 2018 at 6:52 PM

      Yes they are! I am so thankful for my church family!

  3. Tammy Moore

    May 27, 2018 at 6:17 AM

    We love you, Kimmy! Doesn’t sound strange at all. You are not alone in your struggles but HIS strength is made perfect in our weakness, what a glorious promise💗

    Thank you for being TRANSPARENT & REAL💗

    • Kimmy

      May 27, 2018 at 7:36 AM

      Love you too!

  4. Becca

    May 26, 2018 at 7:29 PM

    Don’t feel weird about taking your shoes of Kimmy. Bethany does it every Sunday. lol 🙂

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